My husband and I were chatting last night about how every couple shapes their own unique love story over time. It got me wondering do you and your partner approach your relationship more like co-authors, carefully planning and crafting it together, or like improv actors, embracing spontaneity and seeing where the moment takes you?
As someone who loves both writing and the creative energy of opera, I see the appeal in both styles. There’s something beautiful about intentionally building a shared vision, but also magic in leaving room for surprises. How do you and your spouse navigate this balance? I’d love to hear what’s worked (or maybe what hasn’t!) in your own relationships.