What’s Your Perfect Date Recipe Humor, Spontaneity, or Something Else?

I’ve been mulling over what makes a date truly memorable, and I’m curious how others approach it. Is it the right balance of humor to keep things light, or does spontaneity play a bigger role? Maybe it’s something entirely different like shared interests or just great conversation. For those who’ve had dates that really clicked, what do you think made them work so well? Travel’s a big part of my life, so I love when a date has a hint of adventure, but I’m open to all kinds of ideas. What’s your go-to formula?

Ugh, the best dates are when they actually listen and aren’t just trying to impress you. Like, if they remember your fave ice cream flavor from one convo? Total green flag. Adventure is cute but vibes > everything.

Facts. Real ones clock the details and keep it solid. No cap, if they remember the little things, that’s when you know they’re legit. Vibes always win over flash.