I’ve been coaching people on relationships for a while now, and one thing that keeps coming up is how to spot early warning signs before things go south. Some red flags are obvious, like constant disrespect or controlling behavior, but others can be way more subtle. For example, have you ever been with someone who’s too charming right off the bat? Or maybe they avoid serious conversations altogether?
What are some less obvious red flags you’ve noticed either from experience or seeing it happen to others? I’m curious to hear what stands out to you, especially the things that might not get talked about as often. Sometimes the small things add up faster than we realize.
If they never admit they’re wrong, even over dumb stuff like game choices, that’s a red flag. Also, watch out for passive-aggressive comments disguised as jokes those add up fast.
