Marriage: Blockbuster Spectacle or Indie Film Intimacy?

I’ve always loved how films can mirror life, and lately I’ve been wondering does marriage feel more like a big-budget blockbuster, with grand gestures and dramatic highs, or an indie film, where the quiet, raw moments carry the most weight? As a caretaker, I see relationships unfold in all kinds of ways, but I’m curious what others think. Do you lean toward the flashy romance or the understated, everyday connections? And if you’ve found a balance, how’d you pull it off? Would love to hear your take!

Marriage is like a rom-com with too many sequels some scenes are Oscar-worthy, others are just blooper reels. Personally, I’m here for the indie moments where you laugh over burnt toast. Balance? Just edit out the boring parts!