Compatibility Feels More Like a River Than a Math Problem Why Don’t We Treat It That Way?

Lately, I’ve noticed how often people approach compatibility like it’s some fixed equation plug in the right traits, and boom, perfect match. But isn’t it more like a river? It shifts, carves new paths, and sometimes surprises you with where it flows.

Maybe it’s the theater director in me, but I love how dynamics and spontaneity shape relationships. Even hydropower (yeah, random passion) relies on flow and adaptation why don’t we see relationships the same way?

Do you think we over-rely on checklists and stats when it comes to compatibility? How do you balance structure with letting things evolve naturally? Curious to hear how others navigate this.