Sound Mixing and Dating Any Tips for Finding the Right Balance?

Been thinking about how much dating reminds me of mixing live sound. Push the highs (excitement) too hard, and things feel overwhelming. Lean too much into the lows (comfort), and it starts to feel flat. Anyone else notice this? How do you find that sweet spot where it all just clicks? Would love to hear from others who’ve figured out how to keep the mix err, relationship balanced. Maybe there’s a trick I’m missing?