Orchestrating Shared Responsibilities in Marriage

I’ve always been fascinated by how orchestration works in music balancing different instruments to create something harmonious. Lately, I’ve been wondering how that idea applies to marriage, especially when it comes to sharing responsibilities like chores, finances, or parenting. Does having a clear structure help keep things emotionally balanced over the years, or can it sometimes lead to tension? I’d love to hear how others have navigated this in their own relationships. What’s worked well for you, and what pitfalls should someone look out for?