Lately, I’ve been wondering how the tools we use in screenwriting like pacing, conflict, and character arcs could translate into more dynamic real-life conversations. Think about it: a great scene pulls you in because it’s structured to hold attention, reveal layers, and create emotional hooks. Could we borrow some of that intentionality when talking to friends, coworkers, or even strangers?
For example, screenwriters often focus on “show, don’t tell” to make moments feel vivid. Instead of just saying, “I had a rough day,” what if we painted a quick scene “You know that feeling when your coffee spills right as your laptop battery dies?” to draw people in? Or using tension and release, like building curiosity before sharing a punchline or key point.
Has anyone tried applying storytelling techniques to their daily chats? I’d love to hear what’s worked (or backfired!). Maybe there’s a way to make even small talk feel a little more meaningful.