I’ve always been fascinated by how Montessori education emphasizes letting kids explore their interests at their own pace trusting their curiosity to guide learning. It got me wondering: could that same principle work for building deeper, more authentic friendships as adults?
So often, friendships feel forced or transactional, like we’re following scripts instead of genuinely connecting. What if we took a step back and approached friendships with that Montessori mindset paying attention to what naturally draws us to others, giving space for organic growth, and letting shared interests or values lead the way?
Has anyone tried something like this? I’d love to hear how you’ve nurtured friendships by leaning into authenticity rather than expectations. Maybe there’s a way to “follow the friend” instead of overthinking it.